Understanding Your Baby’s Cries and How to Respond

Your baby’s cry can tell a lot about what they need, whether it’s food, cuddles, or a wet diaper. It’s important that as a parent you are able to distinguish your baby’s cries and determine what they mean so you can properly fulfill their needs.

Types of Cries

It may seem like a challenge, but over time you will begin to understand what your baby’s cries mean. It can almost seem telepathic, but it’s really just a matter of getting to know your baby.

Hunger

This cry is typically rhythmic and repetitive. When you touch your baby’s cheek they may also show rooting activity because they are trying to feed, which is a sure sign of hunger.

Tiredness

When babies are tired they usually let out an irritable cry paired with a squint or yawn indicating that they need sleep.

Discomfort

Most of the time this cry is because of a wet diaper, but it can also be from being position in a way that is uncomfortable. This will sound like a fussy wail, and once you have provided relief the cries will stop.

Pain Cry

A sharp and intense cry, a pain cry is usually easy to identify. If your baby is sensitive in an specific area this is probably the case.

Attention Seeking

Sometimes babies cry just because they want attention or are lonely. This is normal since babies are very curious and social.

Colic Cry

Usually occurring in the late afternoon or early evening, colic is a distressing episode of excessive sobbing. Although the exact cause of colic is unknown, by the time your baby is three to four months old, it usually goes away.

Responding to Crying

Here are some things to think about when responding to your baby’s cries:

Baby-Soothing Techniques

Different soothing methods work well on different babies. Some people may find solace in swaddling, soft singing, gently rocking, or being held close to you. It’s important to experiment with various techniques and see which ones your infant responds to best.

Checking the Basics

If your baby cries, start by checking the basics—ensure they’re not hungry, have a clean diaper, and aren’t too hot or too cold.

Comforting Touch

The power of your touch is incredible. Your child will feel really comfortable when you hold, cuddle, or even wear them.

Patience and Calm

Stay calm and patient. Because your baby can sense your emotions, it’s important to maintain your composure.

Pinpointing the source of your child’s cry and knowing how to respond can be difficult. No one knows your child better than you, and with time you will start to recognize the signals your baby is sending.